I’m Not Pregnant

I might be the last non-pregnant woman standing.

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  1. i get really ticked off when people are super negative about having kids. i want to smack them. 🙂 seriously though I have 3 daughters and yes, i want to know what a son is like but no I won’t be mad when I find out it’s a girl – people are idiots, ok well at least some people are 🙂

  2. I imagine I’ll be getting that question in the future now that I’ve brought home my second boy. Since I’ve always just known that I lost “my girl” with miscarriage I wonder how I’ll respond and or feel when asked. I hope I’m like you! (and I know you had the same feelings about your angel baby)

  3. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    That’s crazy to me that people think anything at all about you being 25 with 2 kids.  We are friends so thank you for sharing your fertility plans with me (lol).  I’m so with you on the tutu thing.  Off to check out your blog!

  4. Wow…those people at Target who are asking about your next baby don’t seem nearly as rude now that Kathy has posted her 2 cents on here. I love your Vlog, Mommyfriend, and since I am such a young mom (25) with a 2 year old and a 5 month old, I get random people asking me: “Are they yours?” or “How old are you? You don’t look old enough to have two kids”. Well guess what people, I am old enough to have two kids and I love my two kids to death and wouldn’t change it for the world. There will always be those rude people who are just nosey and like to overstep their boundaries. But since I keep up with your vlog and tweets, I feel like we’re friends, so I don’t mind telling you that I will probably try for one more down the road (I really want a girl to dress in cute little tutus and buy barbies for but with my luck, it will another boy, which I will be completely happy with also) CrystalYou can check out my cute little boys on my blog that I just recently started. Im still new to the whole blogging world, but I love meeting all these great blogger moms, like yourself. 🙂http://funandfabulouslife.blogspot.com

  5. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    No way!  Wow, that is so uncool!  I guess vague is the best way to be, shame we have to even field these questions!

  6. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Seriously Tina, that’s my answer too! 

  7. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    I’ve used craptastic in real life for quite some, happy to bring it to the masses!  LOL

  8. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Wow, 5!  All hail you Mama!!!  You know, there is so much to be said for large familes.  I bet you are a rockstar mom with a house bursting with love!

  9. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Not today, love it!  Thanks for sharing your plans, it’s totally OK for me to ask

  10. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    I’m sorry you’re having a rough go of it but CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! XOXO 

  11. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    I know!  Preach it sister!

  12. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Thanks Darling!  People crack me up!  You wonder, if you’re asking me when my kids are well-behaving, you should come to my house during the witching hour!

  13. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Dora, I’ve got mad love for you girl XOXO!

  14. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    I know!  It’s good to be the queen, right?

  15. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Chloe, you go girl!  Glad to have you in my corner XO!

  16. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    LOL, yes!  I don’t know where people are going with all these remarks!  Rude!

  17. I also have 5 kiddos and they are all close in age as well, my oldest is 7 years old and the youngest is 8 months old. I have 4 boys and 1 girl…I constantly hear…oh you poor thing all those boys! Um no I adore my boys! They’re incredibly sweet! And then I also hear the don’t you know how baby’s are made, and are they all the same daddy….um rude and rude! Yes My husband and I know how baby’s are made, we enjoyed making all five of them together thank you very much! lol

  18. why are you here reading/watching/commenting if you think it’s rediculous?clearly you get your kicks from trolling around the internet and THAT is much worse that bragging on your kids or trying to relate/engage with other women/mothers/wives in our same season of life. this ‘blogging thing’ is this generations ‘ladies aid society’

  19. Love this vlog! As a mom of 2 boys – hate the when are you going to have a girl question! Oh, and I’m with ya on Rachel Zo(e) – I never know either!

  20. As Lori said. Kathy, you do not need to read this. It takes too much energy to be this angry. Really why don’t you spend your time taking care of YOUR family and less surfing the net to read something to complain about. I’m just saying Toodles! 🙂

  21. Mommyfriend's avatar Mommyfriend says:

    Kathy, a few thoughts…

    1.  Thank you for calling me a “younger woman of today”, that made my day even though it’s clear that wasn’t your intention.

    2. Feeling as though the world outside [my] home wants to hear from me and you don’t?  You were the one who watched the vlog. 

    3.  I don’t remember telling anybody how to do this or do that with this vlog.  But what do I know, I just created it.

    4.  I WISH I made my pennies this way.  Sadly, I don’t.

    5.  Damn straight I brag about my husband and kids. 

    6.  I’m not the one who is missing something, not by a long shot.

    7.  Time to blog, well…it’s a little thing called sacrificing sleep.

    In the wise words of Heather at http://www.thetamom.com, “This is my house”…if you don’t like it, you don’t have to visit but I’m surely glad you did. 

  22. I’m always amazed at you younger womenof today feeling as though the worldoutside your home and family wants tohear from you. I don’t. Oh, it’s notjust YOU, it’s all these quirky internetsites on “how to do this,” or “how to dothat.” It’s ridiculous to make yourpennies this way. Why don’t you putyour thoughts and energies into yourtwo boys and that wonderful husband youbrag about. YOu obviously are missingsomething or you wouldn’t have so muchtime to blog.

  23. wow – that’s really bold for a complete stranger to ask a question like that. the only comments i get from people at target regarding kids is, “Looks like you’ve got your hands full” and it’s usually when they’re sitting really nicely in the cart – not throwing a fit or anything crazy. i guess just because they’re boys or something? anyhow – no more plans for babies in our house (we hope). i’m with you – my *heart* is full with the two blessings we’ve got and I’m enjoying the new season we’re finding ourselves in as a family. sorry to hear about your craptastic week – if I lived closer I’d totally take you out for margaritas – since we’re not pregnant and all! 🙂

  24. OMG, this question freaks me out when strangers ask me. I’m sitting here wondering why the hell would I tell a complete stranger when I plan to get pregnant with all the crazy people in the world???

  25. Great vlog! Currently (very) pregnant with #3. This HAS to be my last one – pregnancy and I do not get along very well! 🙂

  26. You want awkward? Hubby and I were asked by a woman down the street one time if SB was our GRANDDAUGHTER!!! Guess I don’t have to worry about her asking when I’ll be having another baby. LMAO!Also? I will permanently be on the “not pregnant” list. Just so you know and don’t have to ask. ;P

  27. As always MommyFriend, another awesome vlog! I have one precious boy right now, who is growing more and more everyday. Where has my little baby gone? Baby #2 will come…someday…not today. Thanks for asking 🙂

  28. Amen sister! No reason for strangers to ask that!! I have 5 and am asked when I’ll have another b/c my baby is 5. All five are 20-22 months apart. Oh golly a whole five years have passed!

    Of course I get all the comments because I don’t a “normal sized” family. But the moat rude… do they have the same father!!!! Really people, really? They all look identical and close in age. How in heck do I have time to find a new daddy!!! Besides I like their daddy!

  29. Craptastic is great! hahahha oh and currently trying for #2, but you already knew that:)

  30. I get that a lot too. “so when are you going to try for a girl?” and you know my response? “I can’t handle the two kids I have!” But seriously while it would be cool to have a little girl, I’m very content and happy with my two little guys 🙂 Great vlog!

  31. Yes, I get asked this by random strangers, but no, I do not ask random strangers this question! I am a mom of three boys, and my “baby” will be five tomorrow. I guess people just assume that you must have a desire to have children of both genders. But, even if that was the case (and I am very lucky that for myself it is not), how is that their business? Once, when we were new to a church, I was asked this question by a lady at a picnic. We had actually just made our decision surgically permanent that week. I told her so, vaguely of course (well, she did ask!). We continued attending this church and a few months later, at a baby shower, she gave a devotional on how she believed it sinful to “shut up your womb” and “You should have as many children as you can.” Awkward. Now, I am even more vague…..well to strangers, but like you said, you’re a Mommyfriend!

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