Reality Bites: Mama’s Boy


Queen of hearts

Not so long ago, I was everything.  I was idolized and larger than life to my eldest son when he was nearly 6 years old.  Imagine having your personal fan club president as a member of your household?  Honestly, in between all of his normal boy activities, my eldest would stop to pay me a compliment, hug me or draw a picture of me.  While I adored the admiration, a teeny part of me worried I had a major mama’s boy on my hands. 

My, what big shoulder pads you have Mommy Friend!

We all secretly (or not-so-secretly) hope our sons will grow up with healthy mama’s boy tendencies.  I’m thinking healthy mama’s boy tendencies are enough to yield respect, attention and, at a minimum, a weekly phone call.  What I never wanted was a grown son who compared every woman to his mama (good luck ladies) or ending up as the kind of mama who does her 37 year old son’s laundry. 


Wide-reaching arms, all the better to hug you with!

It seemed to me that at 5 years old, my eldest was in a weird transitional period where he was a certified school-ager who wasn’t quite ready to assume the role.  He was in need of extra love and attention which was more than alright by me.  While Big Daddy P sorta thought our eldest should be drawing dragons and stuff instead of portraits of yours truly, I chose to enjoy it as long as I could. 

In the end, his idol worship waned once Pokemon entered his consciousness and I went back to being regular old mom.  It was nice while it lasted and I have these great portraits and a whole stack of love letters to remind me of my day in the bright, bright sun.

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Comments

  1. Renee says:

    It is funny how in the beginning our babies think we are the most important thing in the world and then as they grow older they change their minds.

  2. Jessica says:

    So cute! I want a momma’s boy….

  3. How adorable!! Looks like your husband isnt the only artist in your family! :) You’ll have Mommy Friend Illustrations for years to come… unless Pokemon asks him to illustrate– then you’ll be put on a waiting list ;)

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